The Art of Reconnection: Crafting a Timeless Wine Topper from Forgotten Wood
- Greg Escobar
- Jul 18
- 3 min read

A few weeks ago, I received a heartfelt message that stirred emotions I hadn't felt in a long time. An old friend whom I had not spoken to in years reached out, inspired by a wine topper she found on Etsy. She asked if I could create something similar for her, igniting a wave of nostalgia and self-reflection.
At first glance, the request seemed simple: craft a personal and charming gift from wood. But as I pondered the weight of their words, I realized it represented much more. Our last interactions were marred by a significant decision I made long ago, one that created distance between us. Their request, an ember of hope, nudged me to reconsider what we once shared. It was an invitation to connect again, to create something beautiful together.
Rediscovering Potential
With a renewed sense of purpose, I began my creation journey.
Before taking my first cut, I ventured into my workshop, eager to find the right piece of wood... something with character and history. Among a pile of discarded scraps, I discovered an overlooked slab. Covered in dust, it held rich, untapped potential that caught my eye.
As I cleaned it, the grain started to reveal itself, warm and inviting, like an old friend returning from a long journey. It reminded me of how we sometimes overlook the imperfect yet genuine aspects of life. This wood was rough around the edges, much like us. It was the perfect foundation for my project, embodying authenticity and the promise of renewal.
Crafting with Intention
Once the wood was ready, I began the task of sculpting it into wine glass toppers, each designed to sit gracefully atop a glass. These toppers would cradle delicious bites of cheese, charcuterie, or whatever delicacies the occasion called for. This blend of beauty and practicality was essential; each piece was crafted with love and creativity.
As I sanded and polished each topper, I felt like I was infusing them with the possibility of new stories. Each piece transformed from forgotten wood into a vessel filled with potential. It spoke to the beauty of rediscovery and how overlooked items and relationships could be revived and cherished again.
The Finishing Touch
When it was time to apply the oil, I watched with fascination as the colors deepened, enhancing the wood's natural beauty. This transformation mirrored my journey: the reconnection with an old friend, the acceptance of past missteps, and the rebirth of potential.
In that moment, as the wood glowed anew, I reflected on the deeper connections in life. Friendships often require patience, forgiveness, and an appreciation for both our strengths and our flaws. This wine topper was more than just a product; it carried a unique story—hers, mine, and now yours.
Project Reflection
During this project, I lost a bit of my thumbnail, which serves as a reminder of the dedication and effort I invested in my work. In every piece I create, I pour a part of myself, and this project was no different. The loss of my nail was not only symbolic of the old material but also reflected the rust I had in my abilities on a wood turning lathe. It echoes the saying, "if you don't use it, you lose it," highlighting the importance of practice and skill maintenance.
Reflections on Friendship and Forgiveness
This project taught me more than just woodworking skills; it imparted valuable lessons about friendship and forgiveness. In our fast-paced world, we often overlook the beauty found in reconnections. Such moments remind us of the importance of trust and the process of rediscovery.
Whether it’s a forgotten piece of wood or a distant friend, taking time to appreciate what we have can yield something remarkable. As I finished the final product, a blend of anticipation and gratitude filled me. I looked forward to seeing the joy it would bring to its new owner while being grateful for the chance to breathe life into something that had long been neglected.
The Journey Continues
As this story unfolds, I invite you to recognize not just the beauty of a crafted wine topper but also the stories behind the things we share. Each creation embodies our experiences, reminding us of the connections formed along the way.
Life’s most meaningful memories often emerge from unexpected encounters. So, the next time an opportunity arises to reconnect, be it an old friend or a forgotten piece of wood, take that leap. You might discover a world of beauty waiting just for you.

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